“The unassuming start!!! At the point when the truth was genuine! @officialpasuma I celebrate you today… Behind this image is such countless stories that hit distinctively then, at that point, however alhamdulillah we are still here. Whenever I recall how you saved me from my elastic band Nokia telephone then I actually giggle” Dayo Amusa subtitled the photograph.
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Associates in the business and fans have since responded to the legacy photograph with giggling.
Kemi FIlani reviews that entertainer Dayo Amusa as of late unveiled why she remained in a harmful relationship that nearly demolished her life.
As indicated by Dayo Amusa, it was difficult to leave yet in the long run, she saved her life.
Uncovering this in a post on Instagram directly following the various responses to the demise of gospel vocalist Osinachi Nwachukwu, who died from wounds caused from beatings by her better half, Dayo Amusa composed consequently:
“YOU CAN NOT FIX A BROKEN EGG
I used to be a fixer. I remained in terrible connections, drawing in similar kind of men – men who should have been fixed.
I know such countless ladies similarly situated. We draw in bamboozling men, responsibility phobic men, relationally repressed men, genuinely harmed men, heavy drinkers, drug victimizers, egomaniacs and sociopaths.
It’s like we are a magnet for men whose pieces are broken out of control. Also, for reasons unknown, we feel a sense of urgency to assemble these pieces back.
However, I can’t help but confess, I have bombed each and every time.
I never allowed myself an opportunity to pause for a minute or two and question my thought processes. Rather than inquiring as to why I continually felt committed to get another person’s messed up pieces, I hurried to get them without even batting an eye. Being magnanimous made me feel that approaching second didn’t make any difference since I was putting another person’s value first. Also, eventually, rank doesn’t make any difference, isn’t that so?
I understood that I because drawing in these sorts of men was that I accepted I could save them.
As sacrificial, insightful, giving ladies, we figure we will be “that lady” — the person who will change them.
We want to transform a miscreant into a devoted beau.
We want to assist him with leaving the medications and liquor.
We accept we can assist him with moving past his responsibility issues and hold back nothing future with us.
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We believe that we can dispose of the psychological weight that he has been conveying for a really long time.
We draw in these men since we accept they need us.
What’s more, to leave them would be childish, uncaring and heartless.
The miserable news is, that we continually fault ourselves when they don’t change. Each time they bomb us, we believe this is on the grounds that we bombed them. Their hang on us becomes more grounded; they keep us around realizing they don’t bring anything to the table. It’s simply my view.
